Rouse Year in Review: 2024
We’re rounding the corner to the end of 2024. There have been countless news stories, developments, tragedies, frustrations, excitements, and a never-ending list of headlines to instigate burnout
How to Safely Explore Impact Play: A Guide to Floggers, Paddles, Hands, and More
Exploring the world of BDSM can be a thrilling adventure for couples and individuals alike. Among the various facets of BDSM, impact play stands out as a popular choice for those looking to enhance intimacy and communication in their relationships.
Strengthening the Bond Beyond Restraints Understanding Trust and Communication in BDSM
In a world often misunderstood, where the allure of leather and the weight of chains symbolize more than just physical restraint, lies the intricate dance of trust and communication in BDSM relationships.
The Intersection of Kink and Mental Health
In recent years, the conversation around kink and mental health has become increasingly prominent. The intersection of these two areas reveals a complex dynamic worth exploring.
Reigniting Intimacy Through Roleplaying in Sex
I love all things Halloween. From decorating my home, to watching scary movies, to dressing up for parties and events. Around this time last year while I was doom scrolling through TikTok, I noticed there was fascination with people who dressed up as iconic masked movie villains who enticed their audience through various thirst traps scenarios.
Discover 10 Kink-Friendly Date Ideas for Couples Seeking Adventure and Intimacy
Exploring new activities with your partner can bring excitement and strengthen your bond. If you're looking for creative ways to spice up your relationship and explore your mutual interests, we've got you covered.
Finding Your Tribe in the Kink World
In a world where individuality often gets lost in the shuffle, finding spaces where you can truly be yourself is priceless. For many kink enthusiasts, these spaces are found within diverse kink communities. Whether you're a seasoned participant or new to exploring kink, these communities offer a sense of belonging and support.
The Importance of Queer Friendships and How to Cultivate Them
Hey, let’s talk about something vital—queer friendships. These bonds are not just about having a buddy who identifies like you; they transcend the rigid cultural norms of friendships. Queer friendships are raw, liberating experiences that open doors not just to acceptance but to thriving in a world that sometimes tries to cage us in.
“What is Compersion?” Insights from Marie Thouin's Unique Training
Finding joy in your partner's happiness, even when it doesn't directly involve you, can be a rewarding experience. This concept is known as compersion. While it may not be mainstream yet, compersion is gaining traction in therapy and relationship counseling.
Spice up Your Love Life with These Tips for Introducing Kink to Your Relationship
In a world where relationships are constantly evolving, keeping your romantic life fresh and exciting can feel like a challenge. One way to add a little spice is by introducing kink into your relationship.
Love and Leashes: A Lighthearted Introduction to Kink and BDSM on Netflix
When it comes to exploring kink, communication between partners is crucial. Talking about incorporating kink involves reestablishing needs and boundaries which, in turn, can offer partners an experience built off of trust and vulnerability.
Ketamine-Assisted Psychotherapy: A Safer Approach to Healing
In recent years, ketamine has emerged as a powerful tool in the treatment of depression, anxiety, PTSD, and other mental health conditions. Though once known primarily as an anesthetic and, unfortunately, as a party drug, research has revealed its profound therapeutic potential when used in the right settings.
FAQ: Common Questions About Kink and BDSM Answered
Welcome to our FAQ on kink and BDSM, designed to address the burning questions you might have about exploring these vibrant and diverse aspects of human sexuality. At Rouse Relational Wellness in San Francisco, we understand that curiosity about kink can spark a mix of excitement and apprehension.
Lines of Love: Establishing Boundaries in Polyamorous Relationships
Navigating relationships can be complex, and polyamorous relationships add another layer of intricacy. Boundaries are essential in any relationship, whether monogamous or polyamorous, to ensure all parties feel respected, valued, and safe.
7 Common Challenges in Polyamorous Relationships and How to Overcome Them
Polyamorous relationships, where individuals have multiple consensual relationships simultaneously, can be incredibly rewarding and yet uniquely challenging. Addressing these challenges head-on is crucial for maintaining healthy and fulfilling connections. Below, we explore seven common challenges in polyamorous relationships and provide practical tips to overcome them.
Understanding and Evolving Your Attachment Style
Consider the story of Emma, a young woman who once struggled with insecure attachment patterns that hindered her personal relationships. Emma often found herself worrying that she was either clingy and overdependent or emotionally detached and unsure of how close she wanted to be to others. Recognizing these patterns as obstacles to her happiness, she began her journey of self-discovery and healing.
The Role of the Amygdala in Shaping Relationships
Understanding the intricate workings of the brain, particularly the amygdala, offers invaluable insights into the dynamics of our relationships. This blog post delves into the pivotal role the amygdala plays in emotional processing and how it influences attachment styles and conflict resolution.
“I love you, don’t touch me”
If you’re like most people, you probably don’t think about your attachment style until something goes wrong in your relationship. But for some people, feeling disconnected from their partner can lead to hyper-focusing on the relationship and sometimes sideways attempts to get attention from their partner. However, these sideways attempts often leave the other partner turned off and pulling away from the relationship.
Does this mean you’re doomed to this cycle forever? Not necessarily! We can do a few things to change our approach to building healthier ways of showing up in our relationships. One of those things is learning about what happens when our attachment to those close to us feels threatened.
Jealousy in Polyamorous Relationships: Understanding, Communicating, and Coping
Jealousy is a common emotion in all types of relationships, but it can present unique challenges in polyamorous dynamics. By addressing jealousy directly and constructively, you can maintain healthy and fulfilling connections with all your partners.
Possibilities in the Air.
Pride is upon us, the time when myriad LGBTQIA identities, and allies show up to fill the San Francisco streets with laughter, “looks'', affection, and connection. Although the pandemic paused Pride for the past two years, the Pride traditions are very familiar – the making of eye contact with a stranger while marching to Dolores, the debauchery with new and old friends, flirtatious movements on the dance floor and, for those that are fortunate, new sexual experiences.