Our Services

Couples Therapy

Couples Therapy

Research* shows that, on average, couples wait 6 years from when marital problems appear before seeking a professional’s help.

Are you done waiting?

What are some reasons to start couples therapy?

  • This can be as small as moving houses/apartments to as big as expecting a child. Even if there’s no stress prior to the big change, having a safe space in therapy can be helpful to lay out better communication, improve conflict resolution skills, find ways to support each other, and express your hopes and fears. I also offer pre-marital therapy for couples who want to create a solid foundation in their relationship prior to marriage.

  • things your partner does on their personality or whole character rather than keeping in mind other factors such as stress from work, issues with their family, etc. So if the dishes aren’t done (again) and you find yourself thinking “well it’s because they’re entitled and lazy” rather than “they’re really stressed about their Father’s health” it can mean that you’re starting to have some distance from your partner and you may be building resentments towards them. Couples Therapy can help those resentments come to the surface to bring you closer together.

  • Some clients come in because they’ve noticed something about their dynamic that’s really bothering them but they fear that if they bring it up that it’ll start another huge fight. Coming to Couples Therapy can be incredibly helpful to learn better communication skills to have those difficult conversations with your partner without it leading an enormous argument.

  • Non-Monogamy and Polyamory has been more openly discussed lately which can give permission to some couples to explore this option. Entering into non-monogamy can be exciting and nerve-wracking all at the same time. In couples therapy we can explore what non-monogamy entails for you, examine your hopes and fears, and have a safe space to discuss boundaries, all while improving communication and conflict resolution.

— At Rouse Relational Wellness, we understand that sex and intimacy are fundamental aspects of human connection and personal well-being. It's why we've cultivated a space right in the heart of San Francisco's vibrant Castro District, where individuals and couples from all communities, including our LGBTQ+ family, can explore and enhance their sexual health and happiness.

Sex Therapy Services Tailored to You

SERVICES

Refine your relationship through…

Couples Therapy

Weekly or bi-weekly 75-minute sessions providing a neutral space to work through stuck issues, learn and practice new communication, conflict and empathy skills.

Short-Term Couples Therapy

The Rouse Relational Roadmap is a short term, Gottman-based, couples therapy program offered in our San Francisco office and to California couples who want to work online.

Intensives Sessions

Three-hour sessions to help couples work through big questions involving sex, polyamory, money, kids, their future, and more.

Online Courses

Advance your knowledge in sex and relationship skills through online courses designed by experts in our field.

WHY US

Why people choose Rouse?

It all starts with creator & founder of Rouse Therapy, David Khalili.

  • 20 years of experience in the sexual wellness field

  • 15 in mental health


But what makes him stand out are his cultural upbringings and the network of professionals he has curated along the way. David didn’t read a blog about sex & identity struggles, he lived them. Constantly questioning societal norms towards sexual identity and gender and then going home to have all this clash with with religious roots. He’s had feelings of self-doubt and loneliness but also pushed himself to keep going which resulted in getting some real life experience answers.

Gathering all of the information, generating a team of like minded individuals, connecting with a community, all with the sole purpose to help you find your true self. And love it

Begin Your Journey Today

Sexuality and intimacy should be a source of joy and connection—not anxiety.


Book a consultation with Rouse Relational Wellness today, and take the first step towards cultivating the fulfilling, empowered sexual life you deserve.